We have all heard the
expression
“I
don’t know but I know a man that does”
Whether you are looking for new business – a job – a workman
or a service there are some fundamental facts.
Many
Jobs are never advertised
People
prefer to deal with people they know, are recommended and trusted
First
of all, networking is the process of meeting people, either through a contact
that you initiate, or through an introduction by a third party.
Networking
allows you to meet, and establish a relationship with, people who may not have
heard of you or your business through any other method.
It’s not:
Hustling
Telling the world how great you are
Something that happens overnight
It is:
Finding common ground
Building mutually beneficial, professional and or social
relationships
Giving, as well as receiving, time and information
A process that takes time
Sometimes
new friends or clients are found, sometimes new suppliers, and sometimes new
ways of doing things.
This
can increase profitability or enhance your life.
All
this can be found through networking or socialising with new people.
We
all need other people to interact with both in the business community and our
domestic community. Whether they are to buy from us, sell to us, or brainstorm
with us in order to learn more and progress in our lives.
An essential factor
is
“not what is in it for me” but “what am I
willing to give”
1. We must be willing
to build on our relationship-building skills.
2. We must be great
listeners.
3. We must be willing
to give before we receive.
4. We must get into a
networking mode in our minds.
5. A CONSTANT
networking mode.
Through
consistent contact with others, you will instinctively start to put "two
and two together".
When
you are speaking with someone, your brain will be searching its archives for
people, places and things that can help the person you are speaking to.
This is a
networking mode.
This
is also a networking mind set.
This
mind set takes time to cultivate, but once a focus is given to it, you will
immediately see how you can help other people while you are listening to them.
That is the first
step in getting them to help you.
So
networking, like its name says, is WORK.
The
process is not called Net-sitting, Net-eating, or Net-standing around waiting
to go home.
This process is
work and should be done methodically.
The
process is also a learned skill. It is not something that we are born knowing
how to do. It can be frustrating when you have a goal in mind for your
networking functions and are not achieving that goal.
So
whether you join a Professional Networking Group, a Social Club, Charity or
other Organisation your life is full of opportunities to Network.
“Getting to know
people that can help others to help you”
So
people who sit alone wondering how to get a trusted plumber, decorator or some
other requirement have choices:
Check a Local Directory
Browse the Internet
Ask a Friend or Somebody they know
Have you made the
effort to make sure somebody knows you?